Silent Sufferers
During the first phase of the UGAP pain, which typically last for 3 months to one year, most of the patients do complain of pain and seek medical advice. Majority of the Physicians are in dark about this condition. When the physician cannot make a definite diagnosis they keep on ordering tests-sometimes very expensive ones, they request endoscopies, laparoscopies and even surgeries. When pain progresses to a chronic phase patients tend to live lives of quiet desperation and are essentially a “Silent Sufferers”. Self esteem is impaired and the ability to enjoy life is limited.
There are several reasons for this behavior. Some endure pain for a long time because they are frustrated with the lack of knowledge Physicians have about this condition and their reluctance to spend time, and labeling them as “Malingerers”. Some have aversion about this site of the body, for example genitals and rectum. Some have stigma-especially with women when it comes to dyspareunia (painful sex). Some suffer for years without telling their husband, they don’t mention to their Gynecologist during their check-ups, thinking that it is normal to have pain during intercourse.
Some are worried to mention to their Physicians, that the final diagnosis will be of some serious and critical condition like cancer. Considering the above it is not surprising that these patients feel isolated, they are recluse and live a life of a “Hermit”. Our challenge is to get them “out of closet” and help them.